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Nice Wedding Rings






Presenting rings is sign of showing love to one's beloved. It is considered as precious thing in many countries. It is a symbol of faith. The moment of exchanging rings between bride and groom cannot be forgotten in their life. It symbolizes past, present and future of relationship of couples. By wearing ring, married couples declare their eternal love to each other. Wedding rings are normally worn on the ring finger of left hand. However, after marriage, the couple can choose to wear ring on any finger.

There are different designs of wedding rings. They are usually made up of metals like gold, silver, or platinum. A precious stone is usually placed in the middle of the ring. People choose the wedding rings depending upon their Budget, taste and other factors. Wedding Rings is different from engagement rings. But in some European cultures, wedding rings in fact resemble engagement rings.

The concept of Best man carrying the ring is associated with British tradition.
The best man is given the duty of keeping track of the marrying couple's wedding rings and he is also responsible to produce them during the marriage ceremony, at the symbolic moment of the giving and receiving of the ring/s between the bride and the groom.

A ring bearer may assist in ceremonial parading of ring/s into the ceremony, often a special cushion in some marriages. Exchange of the wedding ring is considered more connected to the exchange of valuable thoughts. Wearing rings indifferent fingers prevents scratching of ring.

In recent generation, people encouraged by jewelry trade seek to enlarge the concept of a series of gifts of ring including
promise ring, wedding ring etc, wedding ring is the last gift in this series.

A tradition in Europe encourages the engraving of the couple's name and their date of marriage on the inner surface of wedding rings, thus strengthening the symbolism and sentimentality of the rings as they become family heirlooms.

In the United States and United Kingdom, in past generations, ladies
wear wedding bands more commonly than men. Today, both partners are wearing wedding rings. Some may dislike idea of wearing precious metals, or the idea of declaring their legal relationship through jewelry. Partners may also wear wedding rings on a chain round neck.

It is observed that usually ladies wear the wedding ring below the engagement ring, thus making the ring nearer to the heart. Another concept states that the woman should wear her engagement ring below the wedding ring, thus sealing the atmosphere of the engagement into the marriage. Some are of the opinion that the wedding ring should be worn alone.

The double-ring ceremony, means use of wedding rings by both partners, is a recent innovation. A
marketing campaign aimed at encouraging the concept of double ring ceremony in the late 19th century was launched by the American jewelry industry. Second World war had its effect on this campaign and led to a more successfulmarketing campaign, and during this time double ring ceremony became popular.

Wedding favors - Practical Favors Favoured By All


The bride and groom are now man and wife at the time when the giving of wedding gift favors is appropriate. Now that the perfect wedding ceremony has come to an end tokens of gratitude are presented to family and friends to say thank you for being part of our special day.
There are fabulous items in abundance to give as your wedding favors, but deciding what they are to be is the problem.

The size of your guest list and budget allowance will most definitely have an effect on what you give as your thank you token. Money will dominate and may well limit your choice of thewedding gift favors.
Problems like this are easily solved, don`t
invite any one or elope (Just a suggestion) But if you intend on sticking around for the big day then bulk buy to cut costs.

Going back in time when gift favors came into existence it was believed that the married couple were showered with luck if gift giving took place. By giving a thank you donation to all attendees then it was considered that the bride and groom intentions were to share their luck

Wedding favors and their beginning became traditional among upper classed people hundreds of years ago. In Italy and France bonbonnieres were given to each guest as wedding favors. These dainty delicacies were placed into fancy boxes which could be made of porcelain or crystal embedded with precious sparkling stones.

Later down the line others followed suit with this practice of giving wedding favors. To sweeten up the occasion almonds became popular at weddings. Almonds were supposed to denote happiness, wealth, health and fertility. Even though these almond favors were given in the history years they are very common at modern weddings today all sugared up and candy coated.

We now live in a different era where the giving of wedding favors still stands if not with more preferences than the days gone by. It is a very important part of a wedding.

Practical thinking on wedding favors makes practical gifts. Useful items that can be used in the kitchen or bathroom are great ideas brought into force in many modern weddings
Not all wedding favors were of this nature, things like personalised candles and smellies were warmly welcomed by guests

At the end of the day this is your wedding and your word is final on what to give
As long as those final words (I Do) took at the altar came from the heart then that alone will
stay with your guests as a keepsake in memory for years to come.

The Truth About Expectations After Marriage




















Jeff and Debbie are dating, and things are going very well. So well, in fact, that they are seriously discussing marriage.

There's just one thing. Debbie does a lot of volunteering with troubled teenagers. Her apartment has become a "home away from home" for some of the girls, and she wants that to continue after she's married, as well. While Jeff admires Debbie's volunteer work and her dedication to the teenagers she helps, he valuesthe privacy of a home, and doesn't want his to turn into a halfway house.

Jeff is sure that, once they're married, Debbie will see how beautiful it is when a couple saves their time at home for each other and guards their privacy, and will curtail her "open-house"policy. Debbie, for her part, is sure that once she and Jeff are married, he will see how beautiful it is when acouple gives up some of their privacy in order to help those who are not as fortunate, and will be more than happy to adopt an "open-house" policy for her teenage friends..

Jeff and Debbie get married.
Four months later, they're in counseling.
Why?
Because they didn't know the truth that could have saved them:
Never get married expecting your partner to change.

One of the major reasons people are unhappy after they get married is that they expect the person they are dating to change after marriage. Therefore, the most important question to ask yourself when you're dating someone is: "Can I live with this person the way they are?" If the answer is no, then don't get married. If there's something that you don't like about the person, something that you wish would change in the future, then you'd better ask yourself some serious questions because you're setting yourself up for a potential mistake.

People have to be accepted the way they are. If there is something about your dating partner that you dislike or disagree with, and the issue is an important one, realize that whatever it is it's here to stay. Don't fool yourself into thinking that you'll be able to change them after you get married. That's the mistake that Jeff and Debbie made, and that's the reason why, just four months after a beautiful wedding, they found themselves in a marriage counselor's office.

Does that mean that you and your potential spouse must agree on absolutely everything? Of course not. But you do need to agree on the basics, on the important things that are going to make a difference in your life – things like values, lifestyle, religion, your ideas about home and family. If the person you're dating really seems to be the one for you except for one issue, then you can try to reach a compromise that both of you can live with. But if you don't, and you disagree on major issues like these, then you're setting the stage for major conflicts, which are obviously not conducive to a loving marriage.

So remember the sentence that could save your life: Never get married expecting your partner to change.